I feel angry, but I just couldn't lash this out to the person 'cause despite the insults that I've heard, I still regard her with much respect.

I am sick of all the crap that I hear from you. You think there haven't been times when my mother wanted to curse your son? Your son has hurt me to the bone. He hurt me emotionally and physically. There were times my mother would've wrung his neck, but she has never, I repeat, never, spoke a word against him. But, you. Listen to yourself! You think that's a good thing to do? This is just terribly upsetting.

There are still a lot of things I want to say, but I prefer not to.